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# Raluca Zagura Parent Coach - Parent by Connection

Supporting you to bring back the joy of parenting, one challenging behaviour at a time

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- [Parenting Articles](https://zagura.co.uk/parenting-articles/)
- [10 ways in which having fewer toys might benefit your kids](https://zagura.co.uk/toy-minimalism-10-ways-in-which-it-might-benefit-your-kids/) - Having two kids of different genders, I certainly know how too many toys can pile up and how difficult and tricky it can be to adopt toy minimalism without feeling like you are a bad parent, ruining their childhood. Yet I remember that when I was a child I would entertain myself playing outdoors most
- [4 easy steps to reduce the toy clutter with the kids](https://zagura.co.uk/toy-minimalism-know-benefits-teach-kids-minimalist-toy-list/) - When it comes to personal stuff, we can easily find ways to declutter and be more minimalist. But when it comes to kids and toy minimalism, things can get a bit complicated because we are not the only ones in charge of what enters the house or what stays in it. I want my kids
- [Summer Strategies Every Parent Needs to Turn Chaos into Connection](https://zagura.co.uk/tips-to-strengthen-parent-child-bonds-during-the-summer/) - Parents and children alike often look forward to the summer holiday, yet the excitement and the exhaustion can see all the high hopes crumbling down. The anticipation of a break from the usual routine and the promise of fun-filled days can sometimes lead to frustration and disconnection. As a parent coach and mum of two,
- [How to play and boost the connection with your kids while lying down](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-play-and-boost-the-connection-with-your-kids-while-lying-down/) - Here's a list of games for tired parents that we can play to boost connection with our kids while lying down on the sofa doing… nothing!
- [When you lose it with your child, make the most out of it](https://zagura.co.uk/when-you-lose-it-with-your-child-make-the-most-out-of-it/) - This article’s title might sound a bit weird or simply unusual, but bear with me 🙂 Have you ever, as a parent, promised yourself you wouldn’t repeat certain behaviour you had witnessed from the adults around you while growing up? I certainly did when I became a parent. I vowed not to ever get angry,
- [Finding Clarity in Parenting](https://zagura.co.uk/finding-clarity-in-parenting/) - We’ve recently watched the 2008 movie, ‘Kung Fu Panda’, as we were getting ready to watch the latest released in the series, ‘Kung Fu Panda 4’. We had watched it before. Yet I had forgotten, or maybe I hadn’t even noticed, the simple, clear, and profound truth Master Oogway (the elderly tortoise) reminds us in
- [30+ Advent Calendar Non-candy Ideas for Kids of any age](https://zagura.co.uk/advent-calendar-over-30-activities-for-families/) - An advent calendar is a really fun way to make waiting for Santa a bit easier. Every year, my kids are now counting the days until we put up the Advent calendar that will then help them count down the days until Christmas! Each year on the 30th of November, we get the felt reindeer
- [How to support a child through their sadness](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-support-a-child-through-their-sadness/) - Supporting children through their sadness can be challenging. It is often hard to hear our sweet child say ‘‘I’m sad my friend is moving away” or “I’m sad because a kid at school didn’t want to play with me”. Words like “I’m sad the holiday is over” or “I’m sad my favourite teacher is retiring”
- [How to support children towards toy minimalism?](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-teach-children-about-toy-minimalism/) - Toy minimalism is a decision, it requires thought and intention. It also has quite a few benefits for the children, you can read about them here. So, what can we do to support our children towards toy minimalism and where do we start? Let’s talk about four aspects to consider and how addressing them might help.
- [How to naturally be calm when your child is whining](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-naturally-be-calm-when-your-child-is-whining/) - Absolutely every parent finds out, sooner or later, what whining is, and not because they suddenly remember themselves whining as kids. It may seem like children are experts at whining, as they can do this often and for minutes on end. Keeping calm in those moments can be quite a challenge! Why does my child
- [What does hitting children actually teach them?](https://zagura.co.uk/what-does-hitting-children-actually-teach-them/) - Spanking or hitting is a tool that has been used for generations. Even if in some countries it is now illegal, it is still used worldwide with the hope of teaching children ‘a lesson’ of safety, obedience, good manners, self-control and so on. But what do children feel and really learn when they are hit
- [How to teach children about recycling - FREE activities](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-teach-kids-about-recycling/) - Our Planet needs us to recycle and to teach our children about recycling. From old homework assignments to broken toys or old car batteries, our planet needs us to take care of the waste. This is a message that our children also need to learn. We want to leave behind the best possible world for
- [How to use play to help your child overcome the fear of dogs](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-use-play-to-help-your-child-overcome-the-fear-of-dogs/) - The fear of dogs can hold kids back from visiting family or going to the park. You can use play to help your child overcome the fear of dogs.
- [How to support children overcome their fear of dogs](https://zagura.co.uk/how-to-support-children-overcome-their-fear-of-dogs/) - Learn how you can use the power of connection and listening and the edge of the fear to support children overcome their fear of dogs.
- [The Sibling Solution to Stress-Free Holidays - FREE Masterclass](https://zagura.co.uk/the-sibling-solution-to-stress-free-holidays/) - Monday, 11 December, 2023 - 12:00 pm GMT Join me in this FREE Masterclass for parents and caregivers of multiple children who want to enjoy squabble-free and bickering-free holidays. “The Sibling Solution to Stress-Free Holidays” is for parents and caregivers who want a conscious and peaceful parenting approach that works, one that is gentle, loving,
- [Starter Class with Raluca Zagura](https://zagura.co.uk/starter-class-with-raluca-zagura/) - Are you ready to gain a deeper understanding of how we can parent so that we build closer relationships based on respect and connection, raise emotionally aware and resilient children, and build support for ourselves and heal past hurts? This autumn, join a 6-week Starter Class with Raluca Zagura and dive into: Evidence-based parenting strategies
- [Tips for Sibling Harmony during the spring holiday - FREE webinar](https://zagura.co.uk/tips-for-sibling-harmony-during-the-spring-holiday-free-webinar/) - Wednesday, 30 March 2022, at 9:30am GMT+1 Join me in a free 1-hour webinar for parents and caregivers of multiple children who want to enjoy squabble-free and bickering-free spring holidays. This webinar is for parents and caregivers who want a conscious and peaceful parenting approach that works, one that is gentle, loving, respectful and science-based.

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- [Welcome](https://zagura.co.uk/) - Supporting you to bring back the joy of parenting, one challenging behaviour at a time, with science-based information, free resources, parenting classes and workshops and so much more! All brought to you by Raluca Zagura - Certified Parent Coach by Hand in Hand Parenting
- [Resources](https://zagura.co.uk/resources/) - Parent by Connection Newsletter Parenting books Podcasts​ Parent by Connection HandInHandParenting Podcast Janet Lansbury Unruffled Websites HandInHandParenting
- [FREE consultation for first-time clients](https://zagura.co.uk/free-20-minute-consultation-for-first-time-clients/) - FREE 40-minute consultation for first-time clients Use the calendar below to book an initial online consultation via Google Meet with Raluca Zagura - Certified Parent Coach.
- [Contact](https://zagura.co.uk/contact/) - Looking for an initial FREE consultation available for first-time clients? You can book one here. Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form. Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form. Name * Email * You're contacting me to: Ask details about a course Book a one-to-one 1h consultation Talk or
- [Parenting by Connection - the myths, and the truths](https://zagura.co.uk/parenting-by-connection-the-myths-and-the-truths/) - There are many myths out there... That tell us that ‘parenting by connection’ is permissive and means letting children do ‘whatever they want’ and have no respect for those around them. That tell us that ‘parenting by connection’ is about being on child’s demand, being in constant connection with them to the point of forgetting
- [About](https://zagura.co.uk/about/) - I'm Raluca and... …I am a mom of two, and a former Computer Engineer turned Certified Hand In Hand Parenting Instructor, dedicated to helping parents foster connected relationships with their children and empowering them with evidence-based strategies for addressing challenging behaviours. When I became a parent... …I quickly found myself overwhelmed by too much information
- [Get practical parenting tips delivered to your inbox twice a month](https://zagura.co.uk/join-the-parent-by-connection-mailing-list/) - "What will the this newsletter bring me?" Practical parenting tips, proven to work, that you can use to tackle your parenting challenges while making sure your children thrive and building a close relationship with your kids. Free resources, invitation to free events, and a community that empowers you, supports you, gets you, and cheers you
- [Work with me](https://zagura.co.uk/work-with-raluca-zagura-parent-coach/) - Parenting Classes 6-week Starter Class Gain a deeper understanding of how children’s emotions work. Learn tools that build closer relationships, and raise emotionally aware and resilient children. Build support for yourself and heal past hurts. Find out more 1-2-1 Consultation for parents who: Want to embrace a parenting perspective based on connection but don’t know
- [Links](https://zagura.co.uk/links/) - Welcome, I’m glad you’re here! I’m Raluca Zagura, Certified Parenting Coach, and this page is a quick guide to my classes and webinars, freebies for you, articles I’ve written, and more! Book an initial FREE parenting consultation with Raluca Zagura Holidays can be fun, relaxing, filled with laughter and rituals, family time and presents. Yet
- [Refund Policy](https://zagura.co.uk/refund-policy/) - Overview Our refund and returns policy states the following: you are entitled to a full refund if the class you purchased gets cancelled by the host you are entitled to a full refund if you ask for one no less than 14 days prior to the class starting date if the class goes ahead and
- [Privacy Policy](https://zagura.co.uk/privacy-policy/) - Introduction This privacy notice provides you with details of how your personal data is collected and processed through your use of this website, https://zagura.co.uk, including any information you may provide through this site when you purchase a product or service, sign up to the newsletter, take part in a free event, or book a one
- [Cookie Policy](https://zagura.co.uk/cookie-policy/) - About this cookie policy This Cookie Policy explains what cookies are and how they are used, the types of cookies we use, the information collected using cookies and how that information is used, and how to control the cookie preferences. For further information on how we use, store, and keep your personal data secure, see
- [Starter Class](https://zagura.co.uk/starter-class/) - Are you ready to empower your child to develop emotional balance, resilience, confidence, and kindness? Are you ready to foster warm and connected relationships within your family? Are you ready to feel confident in your parenting, empowered, and supported? For generations, we’ve been told that “tantrums are bad,” that aggressive behaviour is just a natural
- [Navigating Holidays with Ease](https://zagura.co.uk/navigating-holidays-with-ease/) - A Parent's Guide to Less Stress, More Joy Holidays can be a time for parents and children alike to fill their ’emotional cups’ with family time, rituals, laughter, and presents. Yet sometimes the change in the routine, too much togetherness, difficult extended family interactions, competitiveness between family members, feeling stuck having to attend a certain
- [Parent by Connection Community](https://zagura.co.uk/parent-by-connection-community/) - Parents deserve to be supported, seen and heard so that they can be the parents they want to be, building relationships with their children based on connection and enjoying this journey of parenting. Feel free to join the Parent by Connection community in the following way: Parenting by Connection Village - a private Facebook group
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- [Online Starter Class - 6 weeks - Jan 16, 2024](https://zagura.co.uk/product/starter-class-weekly-jan-16-2024/) - This Online Starter Class has the following structure: First email and access to the course material: Jan 16, 2023. Live mentoring calls via Google Meet: TUESDAYS, 12.30pm UK time Dates for mentoring calls: Jan 23, Jan 30, Feb 6, Feb 20, Feb 27, Mar 5 (note that there's no mentoring call on Feb 13) NO SPACES AVAILABLE FOR THIS CLASS ANYMORE BEFORE PAYMENT: If you are a member of the Hand in Hand Parent Club, please email me the name and email with which you are a member, and you will get a 25% discount.
- [Starter Class - weekly](https://zagura.co.uk/product/my-workshop/) - This course takes place weekly, for 6 rounds of 1 week of study and practice, followed by a mentoring call (for a total of 6 weeks and 6 mentoring calls). Select the option that works best for you: Oct 3rd to Nov 21st - Tuesdays at 10 am UK time - SOLD OUT Oct 4th to Nov 22nd - Wednesdays at 1 pm UK time - SOLD OUT Nov 7th to Dec 19th - Tuesdays at 8 pm UK time - SOLD OUT Nov 8th to Dec 20th - Wednesday at 10 am UK time - SOLD OUT
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- [Starter Class - fortnightly](https://zagura.co.uk/product/starter-class-fortnightly/) - This course takes place every other week, with 6 rounds of 2 weeks of study & practice followed by a mentoring call (for a total of 12 weeks & 6 mentoring calls). This course: starts with access to the class material on Thursday, October 5th has mentoring calls on Thursdays, 8 pm UK time, from October 12th to December 21st

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